Most of my life I’ve questioned the meaning of relationships. I’ve always considered myself a romantic, up until recently my views have shifted to see through a realist’s eyes. In the last week or so I’ve dug a bit deeper in why people aspire to build relationships. Why do we look for our soulmate? Why do we hunt for friendships that will last? Why do people get married? Passion? Love? Security? Sure, but I mean what does ONE life out of millions really mean? I’ve learned, recently, that We look for someone to experience our journeys with because we need witnesses to our lives. And relationships, by relationships i mean all kinds of relationships, are like promising you’ll care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the mundane things. All of it, everyday. You’re saying: Your life will not go unnoticed because i will notice it. Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will be your witness. We shouldn’t be afraid to involve ourselves with others. When we get to that point, that we’re scared of what will come of it, or what we will become after its over, that’s when WE become the problem. Truth is, who cares?! Enjoy it. All of it. Enjoy the people that are thrown in your lives! Be a blessing to them, make a difference and care about the ones that are willing to care about you. If you have found a keeper, keep them! Be a witness to others and allow others to be a witness to you. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
Anyway this is just food for thought. But legitimately guys, enjoy your lives (: